If you think you can, or you think you can't your right...

That qoute on the header to this article is not mine, yae i just picked that up from some place i read... But it makes sense, don't it? Think about it... what exactly does that say... It only means one thing, 'your decision is always right...' What you would have chosen for yourself would be the best choice, you need no one else to decide for you... Does anyone realize how strong that one liner is? Go deep into it and you will realize what you are today or what you might call your fate is exactly what you devised for yourself. As an individual, we all learn a lot in our lives by just living among other human beings... that is, you learn everyday... as you grow up... from being a kid to whatever you stand as today, is what we are taught or what we pick up as as part of our selves as we trod along... Till about the age of say, 14-15, we depend on quite a few poeple around us, who influence us in almost very many ways to make decisions and we always feel safer going back to them time and again... But there comes a time we begin to realize that the point of view of those closest to our hearts, stand only secondary to what we think... Its not that we don't value them anymore but its that you or me have begun trusting our own inner being so much that we digest the fact that we are capable of making the right choices for ourselves... As far as i can analyze this definitely is a right realization for each of us. But, there's more to it... When we decide to go our way and not take the inputs of poeple we live amoung, it calls for a lot of thought invoking. This is so because what follows our decisions fall as sole responsibilties on our shoulders.. you should'nt ever imagine anybody else to help you through the decision's after effects though there would always be people to come your aid. Owning the consequences of what you do for yourself is the biggest role you need to understand when you think you can handle your life. There is no such thing that as fate when some scenarios hit your life. Let me explain it to you with an example... When you walk on a road and are suddenly hit by a moving vehicle, you call it your fate..You might have been on the right side of the road following your rules as a pedestrain, but fate had something out of its books in store for you... and more often than not you need to cope with it... But on the other hand when you are faced with a situation where you have control, like giving up the opportunity to grabbing a good chance to make your life , ...it could be just leaving behind your family for a few years, there your the decision maker and nobody else... That's where your decision is right... 'If you think you can or you think you can't... your right...' Never blame yourself about what follows after you've decided... because that decision is always right.... :)